Yes, you can certainly attend the event even if you never go to pick up the CDs later on
You can do a round of handshakes per each CD you reserve. I believe per every CD you'll get a numbered ticket, the number is random and that means how fast you can enter the event viewing area, so the more CDs you get the better chances to get a good number. Each of those tickets you'll later give for the handshake part.
For the CD reservation form if you have no one's address (JP Only) for a delivery just mark that you'll pick them up. You could even give that to anyone to pick up later (just give them away or arrange for someone to pick them up and send them to you later).