BlueSmoke

Indeed! Personality-wise, both are good~ C:

haha let's focus on Tomoko now.

I wanna see her lead a song in the future! Or a b-side solo~ I swoon at her voice~~

haha Ayumin fans argue over Tomoko. i've noticed a lot of Ayumin supporters are also Tomoko fans haha must be their captivating eyes and undeniable talent and beauty.

^^ haha I think we might have been coming for the same place and there was a huge case of miscommunication.

(Personally on my behalf, I'll try not to assume as much out of people but that is hard when society is biased towards men. Whether people do it on purpose or not. but that's that~) 

That photoset of Tomoko~ !! She is one beautiful girl! She is a mix of, imo a few of the loveliest ladies in H!P: Airi, Maimi and Yuukarin~

She has climbed up my ranks and tied with Airi although she is still second to lovely Ayumin.

^^ I wasn't implying you to be sexist at all? I was just turned off by your wording about her having nothing to do if a guy cleans up everything.. Perhaps i've been reading it wrong as being raised in a society where everyone can be unintentionally sexist since it is very ingrained in our cultures the difference between a man and a woman. My comments were being less about her than it was in your wording of your response. I'm sorry to have offended you to imply you being sexist that was not my intention. I was just pointing out that little nuances in wording can be perceived as such. 

In all honesty, I do commend Tomoko for being a forward and taking charge of what she believes are to be her responsibilities. She is a go-getter and appealing to both guys and girls.

I just didn't like the fact that it was implied (per other responses) to be something she, as a woman, is ultimately the only one responsible for. That's just my 2 cents~ 

edit: I was primarily raised in Asia and taught the importance of family before self. i was just making a point that many people would imply it in a sexist way. Because let's be honest MANY people do, both guys and girls! You both may not think this way and that is actually very very awesome! But now (as it almost always has been) sexism is very rampant and actually go over the heads of many people because its viewed as a "normal" comment persay.

Nah it wasn't about her wanting to help clean or anything. Cause that's fine, it's nice to be assisted in any shortcomings such as being messy and having someone there to help  endorse cleanliness. It was the idea that you seem to have that cleaning up is something the woman HAS TO DO. It's not a woman's job to clean up after the guy. It's great if she is willing to do that but it should never be assumed that that is HER job. 

"Its about her willing to be responsible towards a relationship instead of being just there and doing nothing. Who would want a relationship where everything the other gender does for you. Imagine the guy being too perfect, cleaning up everything and leaving nothing for you to do. That's when it gets boring. "

Not cleaning up after your boyfriend shouldn't equate to not being responsible. Its not a girlfriend's job to do that. Cleaning up after yourself is something you should be able to do as an adult. Also being just there and doing nothing?? That's not a proper relationship at all. If you don't participate in your relationship then you shouldn't be in one, that I agree with you. But don't associate the fact that a woman not cleaning up after her guy to being "just there" or "doing nothing". It isn't her sole responsibility in a relationship. For instance, I'm pretty scatterbrained and messy but I don't expect my boyfriend to come in a clean my room up for me. If he does, then that's great! But I shouldn't expect him to do that. It should be the same for anyone for that matter. Also if cleaning is taken out of the relationship deal and in turn becomes boring, I think you should rethink what you are looking for in a relationship.

And I do agree that if your significant other is willing to help out in your affairs that it is an A+! I just don't think that it's anybody's required responsibility to do the little things you should be able to handle as an adult that's ready for a relationship.