^ I don't understand your decision to denounce the band just because you didn't have a good meet & greet experience. She's a CELEBRITY, not a friend. Most Hollywood actors are jerks but it doesn't stop me from liking and supporting their films. I respect that you went through a lot and were disappointed but quite frankly I wouldn't blame her for choosing to associate with people closer to her age and desired demographic.
Couldn't have said it any better.
Plus that being the result of the scandal thing makes sense too. But honestly, I don't think we should expect idols to be perfect with their fans because they're pretty much human too. I mean I'm sure that as a celebrity, it's a nice feeling to be loved by your fans. At times, they may be one of the people who kept her going. But keep in mind that it's obviously exhausting for a single person to give back all that admiration back to thousands of people. She's been doing it for more than half her life. Half of that is going to be genuine while the other half's going to be acting.